You Get What You Really Want!

I am a firm believer of the fact that you get what you actually believe in. There are a number of situations in our life, where we are tested on our determination. It becomes really easy to get hold of something, if you actually want it to be yours. This fact is most valuable when practiced in love marriages in India.

Wedding is known to be the biggest and most scared decisions, which we take in our life time. It is the bond, which we are supposed to carry all our life. So, a lot of conviction and thoughtfulness need to be instilled in the decision before making it a reality. In case of love marriages in India, parents in most of the cases differ from our choice. They have different concepts about Indian wedding and are not usually convinced about the decision of our marriage. They somehow manage to find problems even if the boy or girl belongs to same caste or religion. In case, the life partner of your choice is from different religion, then you must get ready to fight for your love.

In such cases, I think, this quote if practiced religiously can do wonders. If you really believe in the power of your love and think your choice for life partner is correct, then you can beat each and every claim made by your parents. Most of the couples, these days, end up breaking their love bond and end up doing Arranged marriages, because of their parents not accepting their choice. But, if you are firm in your decision and actually want the girl or boy as your life partner, then believe me no one can stop you. You need to make every possible effort to make it happen. Also, this is the power of true love, which inspires and motivates the person to go ahead with his decision.

Importance of Transparency in a Relation

Relationship

Every bond or relation we form in life is based on the wheels of trust, care, understanding and love. Speaking truth is a basic thing, which has been taught to us from childhood. From school days to college and now in office, we have learnt that being truthful and upfront about things, helps in clarifying things and keep us away from messy confusions. Lies, in whichever situation or at whatever place will land you in problems. Also, lie is a chain reaction, which leads to the production of more lies just to hide the initial ones. Therefore the best thing to keep you away from all this mud of fraudulence is to speak truth. Relations are very delicate and the most subtle of all is marriage, which demands transparency at every stage.

Marriage in India is based on various aspects, but if you lose trust in your partner then everything breaks up. You cannot live with a person, who lies about his whereabouts and always has something negative going in his mind. At times, you don’t feel like sharing things even with your life partner, but you must make sure that your hiding things should not result in confusions and rifts in the relation. Our life partner entrusts their whole life in us, therefore, it is our duty to value that trust and stand true on their expectations.

Sometimes manipulations are required, but those manipulations should be made just to make him/ her understand your view point. It should in no way hurt their sentiments or emotions. A marriage bond should be crystal clear. Your spouse should be able to announce with pride in public that you are his life partner and vice versa. There are flaws in each one of us, nobody is perfect, but if we do everything in our life with ultra care and faith, then each accomplishment would add to a step towards perfection.

Patience Is a Virtue

Keep Patience!!

This is a quote, which if exercised in your relationship can turn the earth heaven for you and your life partner. Patience and humbleness in a relation drives it towards maturity and trust. Before marriage, brides and grooms in India are nurtured with this quality, but our changing lifestyle is making us impatient and intolerant. The fast forwardness in our lives, have made us really ignorant and to a great extent we have forgotten the meanings of patience. In the race of becoming practical, we have lost the track of emotions in us. We really need to work on this and search for the actual human in us, who knows the virtues of being patient and selfless.

If you keep on being impatient and repetitive about things, it can add frustration to your relation. Especially, in case of married couples, implementing this quote in real life can be a great help for the success of your relation. There are many cases in our married life, where we come across situations, which tests our tolerance. In such circumstances, we need to be patient and should not lose our temper. Understanding your life partner and standing by him in all the ups and down of life, are the attributes of a true soul mate. Emotional support from your life partner gives you the power to fight with the toughest of the situations in life. Therefore, you must extend best support to your life partner in every possible condition.

It’s true, there are very few people are blessed with the virtue of patience. But, if we all make an attempt to even try and act like one, it can surely bring a great difference in our marriage. And, I can bet, that it will undoubtedly bring a positive change not only in your married life but in your professional life as well.

Love has No Boundaries

No Boundaries in LOVE

We meet hundreds of people in our life, some become friends and some remain strangers forever. Friendship is the result of the match in frequency of your heart and your mindset with the other person. To develop any kind of positive bond with a person, you must be friends with him. Marriage in India is also following the route of love to a great extent. Love is a feeling, which is generally followed by a strong friendship and which with time gets groomed with the elements of care and understanding. You cannot stop yourself from falling in love with the other person. Feelings are like a free bird, which cannot be controlled and same is the case with the eternal bond called love. It is known to be the purest of the bonds, we feel and form in our lifetime. Lifelong commitment or marriage is a result of the bond of love, you form with a person.

There is supposed to be no looking back from there and you must make your love a success by marrying him/ her. Many-a-times, we face problems in love marriage, which is mostly due to difference in the caste or religion of the bride and groom. You do not love a person after asking his religion; it is something, which happens automatically. Love cannot be a planned activity; our heart unknowingly starts humming the tunes of the one, which he likes. That is how the fight of mind and heart begins.

Ultimately, the heart has to win, therefore, from the very starting; you must make every possible effort to convince your parents. They should be made to realize that you are truly and madly in love with him/ her and are made for each other. It is rightly said, you can’t control your feelings for someone, but you can surely convince your elders for the marriage and make your love a success.