LOVE IS SELFLESS

Love is a selfless feeling, an emotion which drives you do the craziest of the things in life. It brings the sweetest and the most romantic human being out of us. Love introduces us with a total different human being in us. Our life partner helps us discover that inner self, which was lost till date. It is something very different and a feeling which makes us experience a trail of emotions. Smiles, laughter, sadness, cries, dance, happiness are actions, which are sudden when it comes to love. You won’t even realise, when are you smiling and suddenly tears would roll out of your eyes, leaving a question in your mind. This blissful feeling gets stronger and lifelong, when you tie the wedding knot with your love. There are many cultures in India, which witness love marriages such as Nadar Matrimony, Ezhava matrimonial, Hindu matrimony, etc.

The concept of marriages is well accepted in the Hindu society and much Hindu matrimony can be seen happening on this basis. Parents in India have become broadminded and are allowing their children for inter- caste marriages. Coming back to the feeling of love I must say, it makes you selfless, and in every way you want the happiness of your life partner. When you are in love, you are always worried about the happiness of your life partner and make all possible efforts to bring smoothness in his life.

Every marriage in fact is based on the concept that life is selfless and you are accountable for the happiness of your spouse. Hindu Matrimony also teaches the same you in its rituals, that you should support your soul mate at every point in life. The journey of life is all about making others happy and especially when it’s about your life partner; you should not leave any stone unturned to bring a smile on his face. As we say, actual love is when the reflection of his contended heart can be seen on your face.

You Get What You Really Want!

I am a firm believer of the fact that you get what you actually believe in. There are a number of situations in our life, where we are tested on our determination. It becomes really easy to get hold of something, if you actually want it to be yours. This fact is most valuable when practiced in love marriages in India.

Wedding is known to be the biggest and most scared decisions, which we take in our life time. It is the bond, which we are supposed to carry all our life. So, a lot of conviction and thoughtfulness need to be instilled in the decision before making it a reality. In case of love marriages in India, parents in most of the cases differ from our choice. They have different concepts about Indian wedding and are not usually convinced about the decision of our marriage. They somehow manage to find problems even if the boy or girl belongs to same caste or religion. In case, the life partner of your choice is from different religion, then you must get ready to fight for your love.

In such cases, I think, this quote if practiced religiously can do wonders. If you really believe in the power of your love and think your choice for life partner is correct, then you can beat each and every claim made by your parents. Most of the couples, these days, end up breaking their love bond and end up doing Arranged marriages, because of their parents not accepting their choice. But, if you are firm in your decision and actually want the girl or boy as your life partner, then believe me no one can stop you. You need to make every possible effort to make it happen. Also, this is the power of true love, which inspires and motivates the person to go ahead with his decision.

Love has No Boundaries

No Boundaries in LOVE

We meet hundreds of people in our life, some become friends and some remain strangers forever. Friendship is the result of the match in frequency of your heart and your mindset with the other person. To develop any kind of positive bond with a person, you must be friends with him. Marriage in India is also following the route of love to a great extent. Love is a feeling, which is generally followed by a strong friendship and which with time gets groomed with the elements of care and understanding. You cannot stop yourself from falling in love with the other person. Feelings are like a free bird, which cannot be controlled and same is the case with the eternal bond called love. It is known to be the purest of the bonds, we feel and form in our lifetime. Lifelong commitment or marriage is a result of the bond of love, you form with a person.

There is supposed to be no looking back from there and you must make your love a success by marrying him/ her. Many-a-times, we face problems in love marriage, which is mostly due to difference in the caste or religion of the bride and groom. You do not love a person after asking his religion; it is something, which happens automatically. Love cannot be a planned activity; our heart unknowingly starts humming the tunes of the one, which he likes. That is how the fight of mind and heart begins.

Ultimately, the heart has to win, therefore, from the very starting; you must make every possible effort to convince your parents. They should be made to realize that you are truly and madly in love with him/ her and are made for each other. It is rightly said, you can’t control your feelings for someone, but you can surely convince your elders for the marriage and make your love a success.